Books

Men

Robert Bly, Iron John: A Book About Men (NY, Random House, 1990)

Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette, King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine (NY, HarperCollins, 1991)

William Pollack, Real Boys: Rescuing Our Sons from the Myths of Boyhood (NY, Holt Publishing 1998)

Terrence Real, I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression
(NY, Fireside Publishing, 1997)

Women

Harriet Lerner, The Dance of Anger: A Woman’s Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships (NY, Harper Paperbacks, 2005)

Harriet Lerner, The Dance of Connection: How to Talk to Someone When You're Mad, Hurt, Scared, Frustrated, Insulted, Betrayed, or Desperate (NY, Harper Paperbacks, 2005)

Harriet Lerner, The Dance of Fear: Rising Above Anxiety, Fear, and Shame to Be Your Best and Bravest Self by (NY, Harper Paperbacks, 2005)

Mary Pipher, Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls (NY, Ballantine, 1994)

Relationships

Susan Campbell, Saying What’s Real (Tiburon, CA, HJ Kramer Publishing, 2005)

Gary Chapman, The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate (Chicago, Northfield Publishing, 2004)

Erich Fromm, The Art of Loving (NY, Harper Perennial, 2006)

John Gottman, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work (NY, Crown Publishers, 1999)

Harville Hendrix, Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples (NY, Holt & Co., 1988)

Stephen Mitchell, Can Love Last? The Fate of Romance over Time (NY, Norton & Co., 2003)

Terrence Real, How Can I Get Through to You: Closing the Intimacy Gap Between Men and Women (NY, Simon & Schuster, 2002)

Terrence Real, The New Rules of Marriage: What you Need to Know to Make Love Work (NY, Random House, 2007)

Samuel Shem and Janet Surrey, We Have to Talk: Healing Dialogues Between Women and Men (NY, Basic Books, 1998)

Deborah Tannen, You Just Don’t Understand: Women and Men in Conversation (NY, Ballantine Books, 1990)

Jungian Works

James Hillman, The Soul’s Code: In Search of Character and Calling (NY, Warner Books, 1997)

James Hollis, Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life: How to Finally, Really Grow Up (NY, Penguin Books, 2005)

James Hollis, The Middle Passage: From Misery to Meaning in Midlife (Toronto, Inner City Books, 1993)

James Hollis, Why Good People Do Bad Things: Understanding our Darker Selves (NY, Penguin Books, 2008)

James Hollis, What Matters Most: Living a More Considered Life (NY, Penguin Books, 2009)

Robert Johnson, Inner Work: Using Dreams & Active Imagination for Personal Growth (NY, HarperCollins, 1986)

C.G. Jung, The Red Book ("Liber Novus"), (NY, Philemon Series and W.W. Norton & Co., 2009)

C.G. Jung, Memories, Dreams, Reflections (NY, Vintage Books, 1989)

Murray Stein, Ed., Jungian Psychoanalysis: Working in the Spirit of CG Jung (Chicago, Open Court, 2010)

Murray Stein, Jung’s Map of the Soul (Peru, IL, Open Court Publishing, 1998)

Connie Zweig and Jeremiah Abrams, Meeting the Shadow (Los Angeles, Tarcher Publishing, 1991)

Connie Zweig, Romancing the Shadow (NY, Random House 1997)

Mind-Body Wellness

Joan Borysenko, Minding the Body, Mending the Mind (Reading, MA, Addison-Wesley Publishing, 1987)

Jon Kabat-Zinn, Coming to our Senses: Healing Ourselves and the World through Mindfulness (NY, Hyperion, 2005)

Jon and Myla Kabat-Zinn, Everyday Blessings: The Inner Work of Mindful Parenting (NY, Hyperion, 1997)

Jon Kabat-Zinn, Full Catastrophe Living: Using the Wisdom of Your Body to Face Stress, Pain and Illness (NY, Dell Publishing, 1990)

Jon Kabat-Zinn, Wherever You Go, There You Are: Mindfulness Meditation in Everyday Life (NY, Hyperion, 2005)

Andrew Weil, Healthy Aging: A Lifelong Guide to Your Physical and Spiritual Well-Being (NY, Knopf, 2005)

Other Books of Interest

Ernest Becker, The Denial of Death (NY, Simon & Schuster, 1973)

David Burns, Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy (NY, HarperCollins, 1992)

Steven Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Personal Lessons in Personal Change (NY, Simon & Schuster, 1990)

Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience (NY, Harper Perennial, 1991)

Larry Dossey, Prayer is Good Medicine (NY, HarperCollins, 1997)

Victor Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning (NY, Simon & Schuster, 1984)

Alice Miller, The Drama of the Gifted Child (NY, Basic Books, 1997)

M. Scott Peck, The Road Less Traveled: A New Psychology of Love, Traditional Values and Spiritual Growth (NY, Touchstone Books, 2003)